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The fear of failure.
Fear of failure or even rejection and shame is what makes many people crippled even before they begin. I (Adam Khoo, once had a seminar participant who did not dare to design its goals because the fear of failure if he does not get what he wants the hearts and minds that he has designed.
His heart says that if he did not design something that he hopes he will not fail.!
My mother even had the same thought sawaktu he wanted to take the exam at a low level over 40 years ago. He believes that he will not succeed in the field of mathematics which is also a lesson that he hated most, so he decided not to take the test.
This may sound crazy, but many people think the same thing. They believe that maybe they should not have hope in something so they do not end up disappointed.
does that mean that those who dare to design ideals are not afraid of failure? I do not agree to it. I think everyone would hate and scare the feeling of failure, including my own.
So what makes buses so they can adjust their goals and do it?
that is by how we interpret the failure to ourselves. The only person who can say that we have failed and make us feel bad is … ourselves.
yes, here’s how to beat ourselves. At the moment we do not get what we want even though we’ve only done it once, we immediately say that we have failed and felt bad.
This pain that prevents us to do step forward and this happens to most people do not dare to take a higher plan, by taking risks.